F A Q

Do you see slaves/subs at the weekend or evenings Mistress?

2008-10-18T19:37:40.621+01:00

Yes that is possible, but not normally for a first visit.

Lady Divina, I realize that you do not offer sex, but is there any release?

2008-10-18T19:36:41.525+01:00

There may be, that will depend on your behavior.

May I request what you wear Lady Divina?

2008-10-18T18:43:43.236+01:00

You may make a request, but I will always wear what I like, depending on my mood.

Lady Divina, will you be able to include all the activities that I have included in my application form?

2008-10-18T18:42:51.795+01:00

I will remain in control at all times and will decide what activities will be included.
I may not include everything you have indicated in the one session, but you can be sure there will be nothing which you have not agreed to.

I have never visited a Mistress before, what happens if I am not enjoying an activity?

2008-10-18T18:40:47.410+01:00

Everyone reacts differently which is why we start gently and slowly move up the scale. I am an expert at reading body language and you will soon learn to trust by judgment.

For 1st timers I use safe words:

Red: Stop the session.
Amber: I am at my limits, please slow down.
Green: Often used after amber to resume play.

I am very nervous is this normal?I am very nervous is this normal? I am very nervous is this normal? I am very nervous is this normal?

2008-10-18T18:39:54.281+01:00

It is quite normal to be nervous, in fact it is important because apprehension is an important part of the experience. It adds to tension and heightens the subsequent release at the end of the session, when you will feel relaxed and uplifted. There is no need to feel scared as everything I do is consensual and I will respect all your limits.

What should I bring with me Mistress?

2008-10-18T18:39:22.983+01:00

It is not necessary to bring anything except yourself!
You may bring cloths etc. if you are into cross dressing.
A small gift is always appreciated.

Why do I have to have an interview?

2008-10-18T18:38:41.299+01:00

It gives Me a chance to get to know you, but be warned, if I find your appearance, conduct or attitude inappropriate you will be asked to leave. If I grant you an interview, it is no guarantee of a session.

It gives Me an opportunity to explain any aspects of BDSM play you are unfamiliar with and perhaps push or expand your experience or limits.

It will give you an opportunity to speak freely about any limits you may have.

What do I need to do before my first visit?

2008-10-18T18:38:10.734+01:00

You should take the time to email me your application form, giving as much detail as possible. Even if we have spoken on the telephone, filling out the application form will help you to focus on your fantasies and desires. It will also enable me to fully prepare for our session.

What is the correct etiquette for slaves/subs?

2008-10-18T18:36:58.870+01:00

You will be punctual. Neither early or late!
You will arrive clean. If you require a shower before the session, the time will be taken out of your session.
You will be courteous and respectful at all times.
Your tribute should be handed to me in an envelope on arrival.
You must be open-minded and honest if our session is to be enjoyable.

What is the correct etiquette for confirming an appointment?

2008-10-18T18:35:09.914+01:00

You will telephone Lady Divina between 9.00 and 9.30 on the morning of your session to confirm.
As soon as you realize that you are unable to make your appointment you will call Me to beg for forgiveness.
FALURE OF EITHER OF THE ABOVE WILL RESULT IN CANCELATION OF YOUR SESSION AND YOU WE NOT GETANOTHER! YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED!

How much notice do you require for an appointment Lady Divina?

2008-10-18T18:33:03.870+01:00

You need to give at least 24hrs notice for an appointment.
If you require a specific day or time I suggest you arrange an appointment a week in advance.
You may be able to see Me the same day, if I have cancelations, please ring at 10.00.